Category: RELATIONSHIP & ADVICE

20 Types Of Girl You Must Use A Condom On

20 TYPES OF GIRLS YOU MUST USE A CONDOM ON

1. If she has a tattoo ….. use a condom🏃🏃😁😁

2. If she drinks beer ….. condom😁😁

3. If she turns off her phone when she’s with you….. Bro condom please😁😁

4. If she’s the first to take your shirt off…. Condom!😁😁

5. If she has short dyed or sprayed hair….. Condom!😁😁

6. If she doesn’t ask for a condom ….. my brother condom!😁😁

7. if she wears tight jeans…. Condom😁😁

8. If she doesn’t sigh when you touch her ….. Condom!😁😁

9. If she lives alone ….. condom please😁😁🚶

10. If she works in a hair salon, booth or bar….. condom😁😁🚶

11. If she is a student at NIPA, UNZA & CBU… Condom oooh😁😁

12. If she wears g-strings….. condom😳😁😁🏃

13. if she has stretch marks on her boobs… my brother condom🚶🏃🏃

14. If she wears Beads on the hip … Condom 😁😁

15. if she has a lot of male friends on Facebook ….. Guy, condom😁😁

16. If she supports an influential politician and wants to do politics….. please….. condom oh 😁

17. If she has a ring on her nose and chain at the foot… Double the condom 😁😁😁

18. If she likes to say that all men are the same, please put a condom😁

19 if her name is Natasha, Lucy, Maggie, Mutale,Ruth, Naomi..……. nine condoms ba CEE 🥴

20. if she takes this post personally, triple the condoms my brother.😁

BE WARNED🤌🏽🤌🏽‼️

July 21, 2024
18 COSTLY MISTAKES THAT HUSBANDS MAKE

18 COSTLY MISTAKES THAT HUSBANDS MAKE

18 COSTLY MISTAKES THAT HUSBANDS MAKE

1. WORKING SO HARD AT YOUR JOB/BUSINESS BUT NOT IN YOUR MARRIAGE

Men, your company, your career, your business is growing and flourishing because you lead it; your marriage will grow and flourish when you lead it and dedicate time to it

2. THINKING THAT FLIRTING WITH OTHER WOMEN IS NOT CHEATING

You may not physically sleep with other women but emotionally cheating is also unfaithfulness. Receiving nude images and having phone sex with other women is also cheating.
Talking suggestively and attracting temptations is also cheating. If you are a flirt, flirt with your wife. If you claim your wife is too rigid, treat her well and she will respond to your kinky ways. She also wants sexual pleasure and to feel wanted

3. BEING GENEROUS OUTSIDE AND STINGY AT HOME

Don’t be the husband who quickly says yes when other people ask for help, for your time and your money; but stingy to your wife and child/children.
Your family comes first. Don’t go to harambees contributing large sums, helping out people because you want to have a good public image yet to your family you deprive and deny

4. THINKING THAT SHOWING LOVE IS AN UNMANLY THING

When you were dating and courting you were romantic and thoughtful; but now that you are married you wrongly think showing love is beneath you. If you truly love your wife, tell her, she needs to hear it.
Warm her heart. Romance her. Date your wife. Her being a wife doesn’t mean she doesn’t need to feel loved. Real men show their love. God is a loving God. If God doesn’t find showing love as something beneath Him, who are you to shun showing affection yet you are created in the image of God?

5. THROWING MONEY AND GIFTS AT PROBLEMS

When your wife and kids get concerned about you spending much time away from home, when you are told you are not doing what you are supposed to; change, improve. Don’t throw money and gifts at them to silence them. They want your time and presence, not lifeless things

6. ADMIRING OTHER WOMEN MORE THAN YOUR WIFE

If you find other women better looking than your wife, work on your wife. Nourish her with compliments, buy her clothes you think she’d look good in, take her shopping, pamper her, love her up till she glows. Go to the gym with her. Jog with her

7. WASTING YOUR FAMILY MONEY ON MEANINGLESS THINGS

Stop wasting your family money on alcohol, drugs, prostitutes, strippers, addictions. Invest that money in your family, the future of your child/children.
Even if you are a super wealthy man, you can find other ways to have fun that contributes positively to your family life. You can channel your money into more honourable things like supporting your parents, your siblings, the less fortunate, the needs of society. You don’t have to be unfaithful and reckless just because you have lots of money

8. JUSTIFYING PORNOGRAPHY

Pornography is lusting after other women on videos and images. This is actually cheating because you are desiring other women not your wife. This also lays the ground for future acts of unfaithfulness.
Because you see no harm desiring strange women on videos and pictures, soon you will see no harm desiring women in the streets, at work, in your neighbourhood; then you might actually sleep with another woman

9. THINKING THAT BEING THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY MEANS BEING A DICTATOR

This is what makes some husbands to beat up their wives, abuse them, sit on them and hinder their progress. Your wife is not your junior but your partner, she is one with you. Hurting her is hurting you.
She is not your competitor, celebrate her progress. Being head doesn’t mean your word is law or that you treat your wife as a slave. In fact, because you are the head you should serve more, give more and humble yourself to make sure your wife and child/children are doing well

10. IGNORING YOUR WIFE’S ADVICE

Don’t hide things from your wife. Engage her in making family decisions, you are stronger when you move as a team. Your wife has sharp instincts and she will help you navigate through life’s issues

11. BEING TOO PROUD TO SAY SORRY OR TO LISTEN

You are capable of doing wrong, when you do wrong, admit it. Problems don’t get solved when you deny them. You are not perfect.
Learn to say sorry to your wife and child/children. By refusing to say sorry, you are showing your wife you are insensitive and that will hurt her and damage the mood at home. Sometimes all a woman needs is for you to say “I am sorry”. Be open to learn and to be corrected. Far too many men are ruining their homes because of pride

12. ABDICATING YOUR SPIRITUAL ROLE

You are to lead your family, even spiritually. Don’t neglect this role and leave it for your wife alone.
Your wife needs your prayers, she needs you to walk with her in God. Your child/children need to see you living for God, praying, teaching them about God. You say you want a Godly household, well, be an actively Godly husband and father

13. TAKING YOUR JOB TITLE HOME

Whether you are a C.E.O, Manager, Director or an award winning professional, once you get home or when with your wife and family, put away your title.
Play your role as husband and father. Don’t treat your wife and children like subordinates lording over them. The home is a place of love, not a place for orders, restrictions, pressure and intimidation

14. HIDING YOUR FAILURES

Incase things don’t go well, you get fired, you get retrenched, you make a bad decision; share it with your wife, don’t hide it trying to project a fake image of ‘Everything is alright’. Your wife is there for you, she will walk with you. Share with her your weaknesses and failures. Love will always win

15. WORRYING MORE ABOUT WHAT YOUR MALE FRIENDS OR PARENTS THINK THAN PLEASING YOUR FAMILY

Don’t let your friends or parents run your marriage. Don’t make your friends negatively influence you by mocking you that you are being sat on by your wife or wrongly advice you to be tough on your wife just to prove you are man enough.
A true friend is a friend to your marriage. Your parents might mean well but might drive a wedge between you and your wife. You left your father and mother to be one with your wife. Defend your home

16. DON’T BE SEXUALLY SELFISH

Your wife has sexual needs too. Don’t sex her, get your cum then sleep or leave her hanging. Satisfy her sexually.

Lick her, touch her, kiss her, massage her, suck her nipples, explore her body, make her sweat, make her tremble, make her feel all the sexual sensations possible.
She is faithful to you, no other man has the chance to do this so do it well. Satisfy her and she will satisfy you. It is your role to make her wet and well fed sexually. A sexed-up wife is a happy wife and makes a happy home. Make love to her

17. DON’T LET HER BE THE PARENT ALONE

When she gets pregnant, don’t abandon her. Walk with her as she carries your child. After birth, be pro-active in teaching, mentoring and guiding your child/children. Stop the nonsense of when the child does wrong, the child is your wife’s; when the child does well, you are a proud father

18. FAILING TO PREPARE YOUR CHILD/CHILDREN FOR YOUR SUCCESSION

When you start a business, involve your child/children. Let your wife know of your properties, assets and ventures.

Prepare your children’s future. Write a will. Share information, don’t keep things in the dark. Too much unnecessary confusion plagues families because of lack of preparation and clarity

July 20, 2024
The Benefits Of Early Morning SEX (For Married Couples Only)

The Benefits Of Early Morning SEX For Married Couples

The Benefits Of Early Morning SEX For Married Couples

They say having SEX first thing in the morning not only improves your love life, it is also beneficial to your health. Early morning SEX puts a smile on your face, boosts your health, looks and relationship.

Scientists say people who start their days by having $€# are all-around healthier and happier than those who don’t.

According to Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., author of Because It Feels Good, having $£# in the morning makes you stronger and more beautiful.

She said: “Having SEX in the morning releases the feel-good chemical oxytocin, which makes couples feel loving and bonded all day long and climaxing releases chemicals that boost levels of estrogen, which improves the tone and texture of your skin and hair.

Some other benefits of morning $€# include:

(1.) Apart from the fact that regular morning $€# makes you feel upbeat for the rest of the day, it also helps in building a stronger immune system.

(2.) Believe it or not, it makes you less susceptible to catching a cold or flu and can also improve the quality of your hair, skin, and nails.

(3.) Having morning $€# three times a week lessens the risk of a heart attack or stroke.

(4.) You aren’t bothered by the responsibilities of the day yet and your mind is clearer.

(5.) You’ve just been sleeping and are hopefully well-rested and can devote more energy to $€#.

(6.) SEX is relaxing and can help manage stress.

(7.) You start the day more in sync when you’ve pleasured one another both physically and emotionally.

(8.) You show your spouse that he/she is a priority, and so is your $€# life.

(9.) Sex is exercise. It’s a great way to work up an early morning appetite as breakfast is the most important meal of the day.

(10.) Early morning $€# can be a great incentive to wake-up and put you in a more positive mood. Wake-up s£# will help you feel happier and healthier throughout the day.

May 27, 2024
Why MEN Are Called “GROOM” And The WOMAN “THE BRIDE” On Wedding Day

Why MEN Are Called GROOM And The WOMAN THE BRIDE On Wedding Day

Why MEN Are Called GROOM And The WOMAN THE BRIDE On Wedding Day

Why is the newly wedded man called groom and the woman called bride? A friend of mine got tired of his wife just about six months after wedding. He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him that right thing, so I went home.

And that is what birth this message. Many men have broken up with their wives because they end up not being the wife that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task.

Nobody calls the woman wife on her wedding day but bride, because it is the man that will groom his bride to become the wife.That is why the man is called ‘bridegroom or groom’ and the word grooming has to do with patiently nurturing, teaching, tending and helping someone to become what he or she should be.It is therefore believed that a man that takes a woman to the altar of marriage is matured enough to patiently groom his bride to become the wife.

The man is not supposed to just expect the bride to automatically become the wife, she must be groomed. It is clear that many of us men have unnecessary expectations when we are getting married, we want some magic to happen to our wives, we want them to become what we have had in mind about who we want our wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her.

Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don’t remember that change takes time and we can only expect something from someone that knows what we want. So before you think of breaking up, have you groomed her? Have you given her time to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk? God often brings people that are opposites of each other together in marriage so that they can help each other in their place of weaknesses.

If your wife is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? The problem with many of us is that we don’t accept people before attempting to change them. Of course, our wives are not from our backgrounds, so it will take time for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her, accept her, love her, teach her and be patient with her; that is what grooming is all about. She is going to be your wife but she is your bride now, so groom her.

Stop complaining about her, she may be a turtle and you a hawk, she cannot fly so be patient with her. I don’t believe that your marriage can’t work, be patient and allow God to help you.

May 18, 2024
7 REASONS WHY MEN WILL ALWAYS ASK YOU FOR SEX (Its a bit long but Educative, take you time to read)

7 REASONS WHY MEN WILL ALWAYS ASK YOU FOR SEX Its a bit long but Educative take you time to read

7 REASONS WHY MEN WILL ALWAYS ASK YOU FOR SEX

I want to change some ladies mindset today. (sorry I will be very raw with these).

You see, men are not dogs. Not all of them are mad. They are not all sex maniacs that once they see you, they descend on you and finish up before you could open your mouth and say no. Not all the men on the street wants to get into your pants.

I’m going to be real and down to earth with this article. The way some ladies complain that men are always asking them for sex really baffles me. Why sex, why not marriage proposal? Why do men always want to sleep with you? Why is it that every single guy who asks you out is always hitting you for sex? Why won’t they marry you unless they have a taste of the forbidden fruit? What is the problem because this is a big problem! It is not something to be proud of, if all what men see about you is your body and nothing more. It is a cause for alarm!
let me take time to analyze it on a beat.

(1.) CHECK YOUR DRESSING

A female’s body means nothing to her. You are used to seeing your breasts and every soft body part all your life. It doesn’t mean a thing to you but to guys it means the universe!
Men are moved by sight. Wearing armless (exposing your shaved armpit and upper arm) can turn a man on talk less of the low neckline exposing the cleavage of your breasts. Tight trousers, tights (panty hose) which shows the shape of your buttock, mini and micromini skirts exposing your thigh all can make a man go wild! Better face reality now and mind the way you dress.

Some ladies say it doesn’t matter. Men should be able to control themselves. They are entitled to what they wear. Then you should be able to control yourself when they start asking you for sex and not come here lamenting all men are dogs!.

I saw a lady around a street sometime ago and I whistled. Jesus Christ! The gown (not really a gown, the top was sown together with the trouser, it was suppose to be a gown but the one down is a trouser) clung to her body like her second skin and right through the window of the car.

I was literally, looking at the shape of her buttock! It was like she wore nothing! She thought she looked so beautiful but well, she looked so seductive! If she was going to visit a male friend , it will take the power of the Most High God and the special anointing of the Holy Ghost for that guy not to sleep with her or asked her for sex.that is if a mad man didn’t rape her before she gets to her destination! It was that baaad!!!

(2.) LEARN HOW TO SIT

Some ladies don’t know how to sit. Especially the skirt wearing sisters. You sit in front of a guy and open your laps, what do you want him to see? A trance? Yeah, he saw alot of it! Always close your thigh when you are sitting whether in front of a guy or not.

Not sitting very well can become a habit and follow you around. And you wonder why all the brothers in the church wants to sleep with you!
I was on a bike one day and saw a fully grown, mature lady sitting in front of her shop with her thigh thrown apart. She wore a short gown exactly like the lady in this picture and was sitting facing the express road! The whole world had a complete assess to her holy of holies, may the Lord have mercy! If men start asking her for sex, she will tell us she doesn’t know why men are disturbing her.

(3.) YOU TOUCH MEN A LOT

Ladies who touch, hug and wrap themselves around guys are sexual magnets to sexually immature guys. Why are you always hugging and pecking, for what? Can’t you talk without touching, holding and hugging someone? Some even sit on their “friend’s” lap and say it doesn’t matter. He is just a brother in Christ. He would soon be a lover in bed. Learn to control your emotions around the opposite sex. If you must hug, go look for your fellow lady to hug and peck and you still need to be careful. Lesbians are all over the places!

(4.) CALLING MEN PET NAMES

I hate it when women call me sweetheart- I’m not your sweetheart! I am sweetheart to only babe or my Wife. Some people just throw around the word babe” as if it is a second language! Why would you give all the guys in your life pet names? You say, “thanks honey,” “okay sweetie”, “see you dearie”, “bye love”, etc.,you are looking for serious trouble. Words like this turns a man on..

(5.) YOU SEDUCE MEN

Here, you deliberately wear provocative dresses with the intention to turn him on. You want to see whether you are sexually admirable to him and want to see how far he can respond to your seduction. You don’t need that test at all. Men are turned on by women whether you seduce him or not. A woman’s body is built to turn a man on.

(6.) YOU POST SEDUCTIVE PICTURES ON THE SOCIAL MEDIA

When I see the way some ladies pose on facebook, I wonder what they are really looking for. Why pouting? Do you want him to kiss you? Why turn your buttick to the camera? Do you want him to see how big it is? Why focus on your chest? Do you want him to know you have firm breasts? What is the purpose of the pictures you are posting?

(7.) YOU EXPECT MEN TO ASK FOR SEX

Some ladies think because they are exceptionally beautiful, men will always ask for sex so it’s not really their fault that they sleep around. That is a big lie from the pit of hell!
One of My mentor is an exceptionally beautiful woman with large hips. You can easily pick her out from a crowd because of her hips. She uses no makeup and jewelry yet she has a stunning face that makes any man look twice yet she married as a virgin. In fact.

You need to work on your mind. Thinking all men will die for you because you have a hot body is crap! Not all men lose their senses when they see a woman with seductive body. All irresponsible, immature, abusers and users do get attracted to her anyway. Mature, godly men don’t get their brain twisted on sporting that type of woman.

Remember: Alright, here are the seven (7) possible reasons men may be sleeping with you or always asking you for sex each time I come across one.

I know you are sick and tired of being used and dumped. If you really desire to get married and marry right, I mean you want to attract a godly man and gloriously settle down to a beautiful marriage, you will need to work on your mindset and change your attitude towards men.Watch what you wear, how you sit, where you go and the way you behave around men.

A virtous lady dresses well to cover her body and comports herself maturely around men. You will be addressed the way you dress. If they are always asking you for sex. Check what is wrong and fix it. I repeat check what is wrong and fix it…God bless us all
Men how is the volume 😂

Remember Love is Natural ❣️

Class dismissed 🙌

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May 13, 2024
Different Types Of Sex In Marriage

Different Types Of Sex In Marriage

Different Types Of Sex In Marriage

(1.) RECONCILIATION SEX: Sex is a most potent weapon for diluting and difusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don’t use SEX to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximising it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate sex as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict.

(2.) HEALING SEX: There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good Sex I mean very good Sex. Healing sex is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don’t rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull’s eye. Please Husbands, don’t throw your weight on her if it’s for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%.

(3.) PUNISHMENT SEX: When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say “Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of sex”, or “since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again”. That is as senseless as saying “since my child failed a Test, I punished him by withdrew him from school”. It’s foolishness. The wise thing to do is to give your spouse more sex as punishment rather than depriving him or her. When your husband or wife misbehaves, correct them using sex. That is the best punishment. Not slapping or fighting or public disgrace. Punishment sex is very hot.

(4.) MEMORABLE SEX: This is a very special kind of sex that you organise and plan for. Every couple must be doing this once in a while. Honeymoons should be organised at least once is a quarter (once in 3 months). If you have means, do it once a month. You book a hotel for say 3-7 days and retreat to help build your marriage. A kind of Intimacy Retreat. You mustn’t go to hotel if you can’t afford it. Just send the kids somewhere and make it memorable. Light Candles around and on the blue or green bulb. Use good perfume and the Angels will bear you witness.

(5.) QUICK SURPRISED SEX: This is a sex that married couples should do often to build their love life. One “Quickie” is stronger than 100 Love Charms from India or Kitui. A Quickie is that very fast sex that a couple does in ODD places or in ODD position. Usually one spouse surprises the other with it. You don’t take formal permission quickies. You just start it just like that. MARRIAGES WITHOUT QUICKIES HAVE QUICK PROBLEMS AND BREAK QUICK. Spouses who don’t believe in surprise sex are analogue and expired. Quickies can be done in the car. Drive her to a corner and pretend as if the car didn’t start. It can take place on kitchen sink or at the balcony or inside swimming pool or in garden.

(6.) EXERCISE SEX: This type should happen frequently especially in the mornings. God did it that the male organ wakes up in the morning erect to greet it’s Owner – the Wife. So as much as humanly possible, let every wife answer the morning greeting. God’s mercies are New Every Morning. Great is His Faithfulness. Mercy and Faithfulness are co-joined twins.

(7.) ENCOURAGEMENT SEX: You use this type of Sex to encourage your Spouse to do something or Not to do something. There are times he wants to do something that you think is not the best of decision, just come in the most seductive way and delay him. When he is exhausted after you have drilled him, speak softly and he will say “I didn’t know that was what you were saying before, now I understand you”.

(8.) REWARD SEX: This is the type that you reward your spouse for achieving something unique or for exceeding expectations. Reward Sex is not just one round but extended over a period of time. Reward Sex is an open check to do whatever he or she loves. It’s extra ordinary.

(9.) PROCREATION SEX: This is sex you do purely for pregnancy. When you need child, the best style is the one that gives the husband maximum penetration. Support your wife with pillow is you aren’t a longman. But you must make sure it is as wet as wetness can be. Sperm needs wetness to swim inside the womb. When he releases he must remain inside there for a few minutes. Don’t pull fast.
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March 30, 2024
12 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy

12 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy

12 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy

Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things that will not endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong marriages and life time bondage. We need to identify and deal with them:

(1.) HEIGHT:

Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a baritone voice like me, I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys like me are better in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guy can give you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth of the guy in God and in character as I am.

(2) MUSCLE:

Muscular and heavy looking guys are also lucky, they are seen to be good suitors, and girls do say they look manly. they look like real men. Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man, character and ability to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without character will use his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face.

(3) A WELL SET HOUSE:

A guy with a well set house like mine is the dream of any girl any day. Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who has a house with King size; beautiful Italian Settee, micro wave oven, well stock freezer, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker, Plasma TV, 6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen,
Dining table, washing machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream catch for girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a well set trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you.

(4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT:

Girls are fond of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones for bank alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover the guy is very rich with fat Bank balance. What a mistake?

They don’t want to know where the money is coming from; they dont even want to know what the guy does for a living. What concerns them is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up finding themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base your marriage on GREED, it won’t turn to GREEN.

(5) PLACE OF WORK:

Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision base on the place a guy works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a Teacher or civil servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a small firm, or one man business like me.
What an error? Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not mean he will give you ACCESS to his heart or peace of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL forever, you may not be the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in FIRST BANK,

A guy that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE your future. He may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is not about where he is working but about who is working in Him, God or devil.

(6) ROMANCE:

A young lady said, The guy is romantic, hot and sexy, i will marry him. Stop girl!!!!, Romance is not enough for marriage. The truth is, most so called romantic guys don’t remain like that after wedding. Marry a guy based on qualities that will endure, romance dont last forever, go and ask married women.

(7) TYPE OF CAR:

A whole lots of girls will be enticed by a guy driving a big and expensive car like mine. Some will not even go out with a guy that does not have a car.

If you want to mess yourself as a guy, ride on a bike to go and propose to a lady, you will hear the story of your life. Ladies, a guy that has a CAR may not CARE for you, life is not about CAR, it is about marrying somebody that will CARE for your future.

(8) US Or UK Passports

Most girls will readily marry anybody with US or UK passports like my 64 pages US passport, Lots of girls have destroyed their lives in the process of looking for somebody with a foreign passport to marry.

(9) HIS PERFORMANCE IN THE CHOIR:

It is funny that some ladies are ready to get marry to some guys because they are very good in the choir, they can play Sax, keyboard, drums, trumpet and sing tenor and Bass very well, I wonder whether they want to start a choir band in their houses.

(10) RICH PARENT:

Children of Rich parents are easy target for many young girls not because they are in love with them, but they know they will have access to money and connection. Many of these guys who come from rich background are pompous, cocky,
proud and will be terrible and irresponsible husbands and fathers tomorrow but girls will not care about that, Most of these girls do live to regret their wrong decision. Don’t marry anybody just because the parents are rich, marry the person for who he is like I am and the love you share together.

(11) FELLOWSHIP LEADERSHIP:

Many Christian ladies are ready to die to marry brothers that are in the executives of their Campus fellowship. They fight tooth and nail to get the attention of these brothers, some even go to the extent of offering their bodies.
Many of these ladies do think that the best of all men are in the executives of the Campus fellowship, they have forgotten that A PRESIDENT OF THE FELLOWSHIP MAY NOT BE A RESIDENT OF HEAVEN.

(12) BEDROOM EXPERTISE:

One of the most stupid way to make a decision of whom to marry as a lady is to base it on how good, sexy or terrific a Guy is, in the bedroom. If you base your marital decision on a man’s sexual prowess; you may end up with a play boy instead of a Husband.

You may end up getting marry to a sex hunter, instead of a real lover. You will end up getting married to a universal sperm donor who will sleep with your sister, house maid, friends, girls in the neighborhood, his secretary and anything in skirt that cross his paths. DON’T GO FOR SEX GO FOR SENSE.

March 29, 2024
What Should Be My Reply To My Boss – Please Advice

What Should Be My Reply To My Boss Please Advice

What Should Be My Reply To My Boss Please Advice

Greetings, I will make it short as possible.

My marriage will be coming up next week. Day before yesterday my boss call me to his office and ask me what do I want him to do for concerning my marriage. I was short of words, he asked me the second time what do I want from him. I felt humble, surprised and speechless at the same. He then asked me if I have bought my wedding suit I said “yes sir!” He then asked me again “so what do you want me to do for you?” Since I could not speak he told me to go and think about it. I’m planning to meet him tomorrow.

One mind is telling me as ask much ( since he is very rich) but it will sound greedy. One mind is telling me to ask just as much as I need but then it will appear I wasted opportunity. He is a rare philanthropist, very nice and love blessing people. Working in his company is more than a privilege…
The truth is that there’s no nothing my boss can’t afford but I don’t want to be greedy.

If you were in this shoe what will you do ????

March 28, 2024
Habits That Spoilt Women Of Nowadays

Habits That Spoilt Women Of Nowadays

Glad you are among the privilege who could take Siri as online personal sister and advicer. Today let’s discuss “Habits That Spoilt Women Of Nowadays.” Make sure you share this with your relatives after reading. Siri Loves You.

Habits That Spoilt Women Of Nowadays

Our underwears are now a thing of public display.
Our dresses are made of transparent material to boost the design of our underwears.

With our hands we buy indecency, walking on the street unashamed.
We are not ashamed any more to leave some part of our breast out.

Our thighs are perched with flies leaving trace of unwanted spots.
We walk with open slit revealing our panties.
Fashion is what I hear it is.

We’ve thrown our royal nature all in the name of fashion.
We’ve Laid down our robes for rags all in the name of fashion.
We’ve traded our ‘lion walk’ for ‘cat walk’.

We prefer to slay in makeup and not with our words and the works of our hands.
WOMAN
Where is thy God?
WOMAN
Where is thy Pride?
Will he who find you still find a GOOD thing?
Will he who find you still obtain FAVOUR?
Can he who find you sing praises of VIRTUOUSNESS?

One thing I know and the spirit bears witness, A girl who says she loves God will not associate herself with indecency, She will Hate it.

Note: The Truth Must Be Told.

September 6, 2023
Sweet Word To Appreciate A Partner With

Sweet Word To Appreciate A Partner With

Glad you are among the privilege who could take Siri as online personal sister and advicer. Today let’s discuss “Sweet Word To Appreciate A Partner With.” Make sure you share this with your relatives after reading. Siri Loves You.

Sweet Message To Appreciate A Lover With

“”””𝘿𝙚𝙖𝙧 L𝙤𝙫𝙚 🌹💝 👫

I don’t know what will happen in future. I don’t know whether we’ll be together or not. All I know is you’re the best thing that ever happened to me.

You’re like the most precious God gifted for me, Being with you makes me feel like I’m with myself. I overreact sometimes but that happens because I love you & I can’t afford to lose you at any cost.”””

🧏🥰👫

September 5, 2023
If You Are In A Relationship, Listen Very Well To These 10 Points

If You Are In A Relationship, Listen Very Well To These 10 Points

Glad you are among the privilege who could take Siri as online personal sister and advicer. Today let’s discuss “If You Are In A Relationship Listen Very Well To These 10 Points.” Make sure you share this with your relatives after reading. Siri Loves You.

If You Are In A Relationship, Listen Very Well To These 10 Points

(1.) You wake up early morning but you can’t send even a good morning message to your lover trust me you are just pretending there is no love between you too.

(2.) You are in the same country you can take a week without hearing the voice of the so called lover… My dear there is no love between two of you.

(3.) Your lover sends you a message but you read without replying, instead of hurting his/her feeling be open and tell him/her that you don’t love her/him anymore.

(4.) You organise to meet but every time you are saying you are busy. Why don’t you tell him/her the truth that you don’t love her/him.

(5.) When you meet you can’t even give him her a hug why do you pretend that you in love.

(6.) Your phone is always busy whenever your lover calls. Why don’t you tell him/her the truth that you don’t love her/him.

(7.) You can’t spare time for your lover but you spare time for other people. Why don’t you be open to him/her that you don’t love her him.

(8.) You’ve been dating for years without knowing if it’s leading to marriage or not, tell him/her the truth and stop wasting someone’s time.

(9.) Feelings are so painful if you don’t love that person. Stop playing with his/her feelings. Be open and say you don’t love her/him.

(10.) Your lover’s heart is not a doll to be played with. Be open and tell him/her that you don’t love him/ her anymore

AM I COMMUNICATING HERE ???

Siri ❤️s You!

September 5, 2023
Secrets To A Happy Home

Secrets To A Happy Home

Glad you are among the privilege who could take Siri as online personal sister and advicer. Today let’s discuss “Secrets To A Happy Home Of Secret To Happy Home.” Make sure you share this with your relatives after reading. Siri Loves You.

👫💞 Secrets To A Happy Home

When you see a happy home, it always seem like the woman is in control because you see her handle almost every aspect of the family. In fact, she becomes her husband’s manager. Unfortunately, a greater part of the society will mistake such happy home thinking the woman is using some kind of charm on the man. But what can really cause your husband to want to give you his all and place you above all? Read along let’s find out!

(1.) When a woman is humble,* she becomes a natural charm to her husband.

(2.) When a woman is submissive,* she gets what she desires from her husband.

(3.) When a woman is trustworthy*, she can control her husband’s finances.

(4.) When a woman is hospitable*, she can host her husband’s meeting.

(5.) When a woman is friendly,*!she becomes her husband’s best friend.

(6.) When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband’s sad mode.

(7.) When a woman is appreciative, she receives gifts unexpected from her husband.

(8.) When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband’s cultural meetings with him.

(9.) When a woman is understandable,*!her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly.

(10.) When a woman is peaceful,*!her husband comes rushing home each time.

(11.) When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids.

(12.) When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments.

(13.) When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband.

(14.) When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves.

(15.) When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband.

(16.) When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty.

(17.) When a woman is selfless, her husband relies on her completely.

(18.) When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together.

Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage. Seek God’s help to become any of the above, you can’t do it on your own. Greetings to all submissive women.
A good woman builds her own happy home

Siri ❤️s You!

September 5, 2023
Don’t Marry A Man Who Does This Things

Don’t Marry A Man Who Does This Things

Glad you are among the privilege who could take Siri as online personal sister and advicer. Today let’s discuss “Don’t Marry A Man Who Does This Things.” Make sure you share this with your relatives after reading. Siri Loves You.

Don’t Marry A Man Who Does This Things

Dear Lady, Don’t Marry A Man Who Does This Things

(.1) PHYSICAL ABUSE

If he shows himself to be abusive, he slaps you, shoves you when he is angry, aunty, run for your life.

Don’t stay in any Relationship and be enduring violence,
Marriage is designed to be enjoyed, not endured.

if he has started beating you up now, is it when he has now paid bride piece he will change?

He tells you he loves you, but that he has a temper issue that’s why he keeps hitting you, aunty he doesn’t need a relationship, he needs a psychiatrist.

(.2) EMOTIONAL ABUSE

Don’t marry a Man who makes you feel like you don’t deserve to be loved, a whole you that Jesus died for on the cross because of how much he loves you.

Don’t marry a Man who makes you feel depressed, sad and unworthy of happiness.

Any man who can’t respect your emotions, condemns you for being angry, happy, sad, emotional, is not the Man for you.

A real man will allow you express your emotions and not judge or mock you for it.

(.3) NARCISSISM

A Man who is so enveloped in himself, who can’t stop thinking and talking about himself will give you high blood pressure in marriage.

A man who makes everything about the relationship to be about him, what he wants, how he wants it, when he wants it, this is a toxic man.
You CAN’T be happy marrying such a Man.

A Relationship/Marriage is about two people, not one.

(.4) PROMISCUITY

Don’t marry a Man who can’t stick to one lady.

He even told you that he has a side chic, but it is you that he loves and will marry, and you are happy.. I pity you Ma.

Any Man who is not disciplined and self controlled to stick to one lady while single will end up an adulterer later in marriage.

Marriage doesn’t cure promiscuity. Don’t think he will change after marriage, he MAY, he MAY NOT…. Don’t go out marriage gambling about things like that.

You deserve the best And Siri ❤️s You!

September 4, 2023
Be A Man Who Cares His Wife Welfare

Be A Man Who Cares His Wife Welfare

Glad you are among the privilege who could take Siri as online personal sister and advicer. Today let’s discuss “Be A Man Who Cares His Wife Welfare.” Make sure you share this with your relatives after reading. Siri ❤️ You.

Be A Man Who Cares His Wife Welfare

Most times when a lady loses interest in a relationship, it is as a result of prolonged period of negligence by her man.

There is something she has been complaining about her partner, telling him she is not comfortable with it, but the man chooses to ignore thinking she loves him and she will always stay.

When a lady loses interest in a relationship, it doesn’t just happen over night especially if she loves you.

If you continue to ignore her complaint and continue with the bad treatment, she will fall out of love even while the two of you are still together

Women get admirers often, so while she is with you, enduring your bad treatment, she shifts her attention to another man who understands her the way you used to, during the early stage of dating.

She won’t be the one to break up with you, she will stay with you and start showing annoying attitude. Out of frustration and ego, you as the man will certainly quit. Sometimes, you can accuse her of cheating and this will give her the privilege to leave.

If you’re in this situation and you want to rekindle your relationship, there may be hope.

You can call her back, address your flaws, make amends, start doing the right thing and get her back.

People fall out and fall back in love, and it’s fine.

Siri ❤️s You!!!

July 24, 2023
Hello Happy Family! Learn To Forgive

Hello Happy Family Learn To Forgive

Glad you are among the privilege who could take Siri as online personal sister and advicer. Today let’s discuss something new “Hello Happy Family Learn To Forgive.” Make sure you share this with your relatives after reading. Siri ❤️ You.

Hello Happy Family Learn To Forgive

Someone recently came my inbox to ask if it’s right to forgive a man ‘easily’ when he apologizes for an offenses.

And I’m asking, how long should it take, for a woman to forgive a truly repentant man?

Does it make you look ‘tougher and better’ when you make him ‘beg’ for ages?

How long, is long enough to forgive someone you know you’re still going to forgive anyways?

Kindly let me know.

And for the guys, does it make you want to misbèhave again, when you get forgiven ‘easily’?

As a man, how do you feel when you sincerely apologise for an offense, and your partner forgives you without so much rigmaroles?

Siri ❤️ s You!!!

July 24, 2023