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  • How I Lost My Husband

    How I Lost My Husband

    How I Lost My Husband

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    🤷 How I Lost My Husband:

    Today is supposed to be our wedding anniversary but unfortunately, my husband is nowhere to be found.

    We used to be in love, we were so sure that our marriage would be Heaven on earth, and we were ready to do everything within our ability to make our marriage work. We were ready to give our marriage whatever it needed be it prayer, understanding, forgiveness, and the like.

    But the devil came through where we least expected, SEX. We couldn’t attain sexual satisfaction as I had no interest in it while my husband was always looking forward to having great sex. This went on for almost eight months till my husband couldn’t endure it. He left the house leaving me with a letter of how I pushed him into the hands of another woman.

    As funny as this might sound or look, I still couldn’t believe that this happened to me, it’s been three years now and I haven’t set my eyes on my husband. #fiction#

    It is great to desire a great home but there is a place of preparation. Unfortunately, many of us don’t think about the necessary preparation needed for a great marriage, we all believe we would cross the bridge when we get there. If there is one thing some Christian couples are suffering from, it is a lack of sexual satisfaction.

    Listen, you don’t need to tour the contour of your body before you prepare sexually. How then can we prepare? Read godly books on sex like THE ACT OF MARRIAGE by Tim Lahaye, talk to mature couples who are experiencing marital bliss, discuss sex with your partner, and what your expectation is, and then reach an agreement.

    Also, we need to understand that engaging in pre-marital sex can affect your sexual satisfaction in marriage because there will be a tendency to always compare your wife or husband to your past partners. So, the best is to abstain from pre-marital sex knowing full well that God’s plan was for two virgins to get married and explore the beautiful gift of sex.

    Finally, commit your sexual life to the hand of the Lord, He created sex for couples to help them bond well, Hence, He can help you enjoy sex in marriage. Remember, God can help you attain sexual satisfaction and not pornography or pre-marital sex. May we never lose our homes to a lack of sexual satisfaction?

    Thanks for reading,

    I hope life is touched.

    I am Olowojesiku Deborah Iyanu,

    I help mend broken homes and relationships and help fight rape and injustice against the female gender.

  • Are You A Virgin ?

    Are You A Virgin ?

    Are You A Virgin

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    🤷 Are You A Virgin:

    My friends and I were shocked when it came to our knowledge that one of our friends had been raped and hospitalized. We left what we were doing and ran to the hospital to confirm if the rumor was true and unfortunately, it was. Tabitha was raped by three men and the shock made her lose consciousness.

    The state we met Tabitha was so heartbreaking that we couldn’t help but shed tears. While in our sullen moment, her elder brother walked into her ward with the news that the culprits had been found. The CCTV in their house captured the incident and unfortunately, the culprits happen to be a brother we look up to and his friends.

    It was then I remembered that we once engaged in a discussion with this brother where he asked if we were still virgins. Tabitha gladly gave him a yes while I was reluctant to give a reply because my mom had warned me to be careful of what I discuss with the opposite gender. At that point, I realized that the brother asked us that question because of his wicked intention. #fiction#

    The Bible says that wisdom is profitable hence, we need to apply wisdom in every aspect of our lives. One thing I keep telling young people is that your chaste status isn’t meant for public consumption. Yea, being a virgin is a thing of pride but we live in a world where there is so much wickedness around that is why we have to be wise in all our doings.

    So many sisters have lost their lives and relationships to molestation just because they couldn’t conceal their chaste status. The Bible says “He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life”

    This doesn’t pertain to the sisters alone, some brothers have been brought low because they openly flaunted their chaste status. Like I said earlier, this world has gone haywire and there are things you need to keep away from the public.

    The only person you owe the story of your chaste status is the one who you are meant to spend your forever with. May we never fall into the hands of the wicked ones in Jesus’ name.

    Thanks for reading,

    I hope life is touched.

    My name is Olowojesiku Deborah Iyanu,

    I help mend broken homes and relationships and help fight rape and injustice against the female gender.

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  • Honeymoon Gone Wrong!

    Honeymoon Gone Wrong!

    Honeymoon Gone Wrong

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    🤷 Honeymoon Gone Wrong:

    I was enjoying my early morning sleep when a call came into my phone. At first, I didn’t want to pick because it was disturbing my sleep but I had no choice when I discovered my bestie who got married days ago was the one calling. After picking up the call, I was surprised to find her crying.

    Me: Babe?? Why are you crying? What’s wrong? Is your husband fine?

    Time: (sobbing) Everything isn’t fine ooooo, I just discovered my husband has a child with another woman and he didn’t mention it to me all through our courtship. I am ending this marriage, I can’t take this deceit.

    Me: Jesus! Calm down babe but how do you get to know and have you confronted him?

    Timi: his baby mama called me and when I confronted him, he didn’t deny it, he simply said he was sorry. I just can’t take this deceit.

    Me: didn’t you guys discuss each other’s past while courting?

    Timi: I felt he should have informed him if he had any ugly past.

    Me: Haaaa, this one is honeymoon went wrong oooo #fiction#

    So many young people forget the real purpose of courtship, some get carried away by the happiness and excitement of falling in love probably because they had waited for many years and all they ever wanted is to enjoy the exciting feelings that come along with being loved. Unfortunately, this has destroyed many relationships.

    Yes, courtship should be a period to show love and care to one another, it’s a time to pray and serve God together, but it is very important to know that it is a period to know one another, it is a period to talk, talk and talk, it is a period to ask questions and clarify every confusing situation, it is a period to understand each other’s values both spiritual and moral.

    Sweetheart, if you truly love that young man or woman to the point of wanting to go into a relationship with him or her, it is important to discuss your past with him or her. It is better to have a broken relationship than a broken or unhappy marriage. Be open and transparent, if he or she can’t cope with your past, God will give you a replacement when you go back to Him or better still work on your partner.

    Forever is too long to be in an unhappy home, please, never hide your past from your partner.

    Thanks for reading,

    I hope life is touched.

    I am Olowojesiku Deborah Iyanu,

    I help mend broken homes and relationships and help fight rape and injustice against the female gender.

  • Enemies Of Your Marriage

    Enemies Of Your Marriage

    Enemies Of Your Marriage

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    🤷 Enemies Of Your Marriage:

    ENEMIES OF YOUR MARRIAGE.

    My spiritual sisters and I went for a prison outreach, and in the course, I had a strong urge to preach to a particular man. I moved closer to him, greeted him, and began to preach the salvation message to him when he cut me short by saying he already had an encounter with Christ even before he was brought into the prison.

    Being shocked was an understatement of what I felt. Out of curiosity, I asked what brought him to the prison, and he wasted no time in narrating how he slapped his wife, which led to her death. He went on to explain that his best friend called him one day to tell him that he saw his wife go into a hotel room with another man. He ran home to meet his wife, but he was too angry to listen to her; he slapped her so hard when she tried to defend herself, she hit her head on the wall and became unconscious, she died some days later, and her family got him arrested.

    When his best friend got wind of the situation, he said his wife never went to a hotel with another man. He just framed her because he was jealous of the fact that his friend was happily married while he was unlucky with relationships. #fiction#

    If there is one thing I have come to understand about life, it is the fact that not everyone who claims to be happy for you truly are. That is why you have to be careful with who you discuss the issue of your marriage with and who gives you marital advice. So many people are going through tough marital issues, and seeing you enjoy marital bliss can trigger jealousy in them.

    A Yoruba adage will say, “When your yam is ready for harvest, you ought to cover it with your clothes” This implies there are things you don’t reveal about your marriage to the general public, there are things you need to keep private to keep the eyes of the wicked ones away from your marriage because the enemy will never let a happy home be.

    Also, when you are going through a tough phase in your marriage, the Holy Spirit is the right candidate to talk to. He has been sent to help us, and He will tell you all you need to do. Before you tell anyone anything, inquire from the Holy Spirit if you should do so or not because not everyone is mature enough to handle the issues of your marriage.

    Finally, stay close to God and be prayerful because only God can help you overcome the hurdles in marriage. May our marriages not get destroyed in Jesus’ name. Amen.

    Thanks for reading,

    I hope life is touched.

    I am Olowojesiku Deborah Iyanu,

    I help mend broken homes and relationships and help fight rape and injustice against the female gender.

  • The One I Called Friend (Episode 1)

    The One I Called Friend (Episode 1)

    The One I Called Friend Episode 1

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    🙎 The One I Called Friend Episode One:

    Simi was the only child of her parent, it could be said that life was fair to her as she was blessed with parents who had a happy home, were financially buoyant, and did everything within their ability to ensure she got the best of life. She was the apple of her father’s eye hence, nothing must go wrong with her. The family was a happy one but there was a problem.

    Mrs. Adeshina, Simi’s mom wanted more children which were not forthcoming. She tried every possible means to conceive after having Simi but her efforts proved abortive. She tried IVF but got no results, her husband was contented with having Simi, he was grateful to God that they were not barren. But then, Mrs. Adeshina would have none of this, she was bent on having more children despite her husband’s satisfaction with having one child.

    Mrs. Adeshina engaged in all manner of spiritual exercises including fasting, praying, going to mountains, sowing seeds, and many more. She just wanted God to look down on her and give her more children.

    Three months after Simi’s fourteenth birthday, God heard Mrs. Adeshina’s prayers as she was confirmed two months pregnant after being sick for a week. You can imagine the joy in the family, Mr. Adeshina was overjoyed. The right preparations for the new baby were being put in place as the family looked forward to having him or her in the family after nine months.

    Days turned into weeks and weeks into months, and Mrs. Adeshina went into labor after months of being pregnant. The labor started in the evening, luckily, her husband was around so, he rushed her to their family hospital where she was taken to the labor room. Everything started well and fine but all of a sudden, things changed. Even though Mrs. Adeshina pushed so hard, she couldn’t give birth naturally. The doctor, who saw that things were getting out of hand advised that she undergo a cesarean section to save the life of both mother and child.

    Mr. Adeshina agreed immediately urging the doctor to do everything possible to save his wife. The doctor tried his best but he was only able to save the baby as Mrs. Adeshina passed on after the baby was brought out of her. Mr. Adeshina went into shock when the news got to him, it was like a dream, and he pinched himself severally to be sure he wasn’t dreaming.

    Simi burst into bitter tears when she heard that her mother had passed away, she refused to be consoled by neighbors and friends, all she just wanted was her mother.

    It was a devastating moment for both father and daughter as it looked like the light of the family was gone. Mr. Adeshina had to call his elder sister to come over and take care of the baby as he couldn’t even look the baby in the face. Simi didn’t even want to have any contact with the baby as she felt the baby killed her mother.

    Aunty Lucy tried her best to make both father and daughter accept the baby but her effort proved abortive. As if he knew his family never wanted him, the baby died a week after he was born which further broke Mr. Adeshina’s heart, he felt guilty about the baby’s death, and he wished he had consoled himself with the birth of the baby but then, his wishes could not restore the baby to life.

    The baby was buried alongside his mother while the father and daughter tried to put the past behind them but found it very hard. Mr. Adeshina soon found himself wallowing in depression and after a year, kicked the bucket.

    Simi almost ran mad when she went into her father’s room that particular morning to wake him up only to meet him dead. At first, she thought he was deeply asleep but in the long run, discovered there was no longer life in her father. Her scream was what attracted the neighbours who confirmed that he was truly dead.

    Simi’s aunt came almost immediately she got wind of the death of her younger brother. Getting to his residence, she was heartbroken, she began to question why He allowed evil to come near the family that loved Him dearly. If there was one thing that stood out in Mr. Adeshina’s life, it was his love and devotion to God and His work. Mr. Adeshina could give his last kobo for the things of God.

    TO Be Continued

  • Tobi Was Preferred

    Tobi Was Preferred

    Tobi Was Preferred

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    🤷 Tobi Was Preferred:

    She struggled to gain relevance in her own family, she went the extra mile to make her family see her as being important but it yielded little or no effort, there was someone preferable to her.

    That was her brother, she had watched her parent favor her brother all because they felt he would be the one to carry and replicate the family name while she would end up being married into another family. There were times she would be beaten for a crime her brother committed all because her brother was preferable.

    She watched her parent send her brother to a school in the western country while she was denied the right to education. Her desire to become a great woman was killed when parents her said her education was of no use and when she decided to train herself, she was threatened with being cut off from the family.

    When she couldn’t take the hurt and torture again, she ended her life believing death was a better option. #fiction#

    One great mistake parents make is favoring a child above another, some parents make it so obvious that a particular child in the family is their favorite. This child gets his or her needs satisfied at the expense of other children.

    Often, parents make a child their favorite because of his or her academic feat, they focus on this child with the mind that, that is the child that will bring goodnsss into the family. This is wrong, that a child isn’t performing up to expectation isn’t a reason to neglect him or her.

    Children are different, it is now the parent’s duty to understand each child and know what works for him or her. Every child has greatness in him or her, but then, parents have to discover how to help bring this greatness into manifestation.

    So many children have lost their lives or even become wayward because they were neglected. No child should suffer because his or her sibling is preferable. Children are to be treated equally because they have a role to play in the family. May we not lead our children through the path of destruction in Jesus’ name.

    Thanks for reading,

    I hope a life is touched.

    I am Olowojesiku Deborah Iyanu,

    I help mend broken homes and relationships and help fight rape and injustice against the female gender.

  • You Need To Marry A Pastor

    You Need To Marry A Pastor

    You Need To Marry A Pastor

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    🤷 You Need To Marry A Pastor:

    Those were the exact words of someone to me as per se, I am into ministry, and I just shook my head at the person’s level of ignorance.

    I spent these past days at the RCF leadership training program where Sunmisola Agbebi was invited to minister to us. While everyone was soaked in worship, my attention was drawn to something else, which was, her husband praying and blasting in tongues while she was ministering. At that moment, the Holy opened my eyes to the kind of partner that God has for his children and that is the one who can help His sons and daughters fulfill their destiny and be a shield to them.

    But then, so many of us are getting it all wrong. We’ve come to believe fallacies, we have been made to trust lies. As a child of God, you may not likely need a pulpit preacher as a life partner, he or she may not be the type that screams when praying, he or she may not be the type that vibrates on the altar, he or she may not look like a spiritual person but then, that is who your life and destiny need.

    Who you get married to will determine if you will go far in life or not that is why you need to trust God. Can you stop falling for physical deceit? Can you stop falling for lies that if he or she isn’t a pulpit preacher, you won’t enjoy marriage to him or her?

    See, all you need is to allow God to give you who He knows to be the best for your life and destiny in order not to live a life of everyday lamentation.

    God loves you and He is interested in your happiness but you need to trust Him for marital settlement. He is still in the business of settling people maritally and I assure you that He will never disappoint you if you can trust in Him.

    Thanks for reading,

    I hope you learned something.

    I am Olowojesiku Deborah Iyanu,

    I help mend broken homes and relationships and help fight rape and injustice against the female gender.