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  • Why MEN Are Called “GROOM” And The WOMAN “THE BRIDE” On Wedding Day

    Why MEN Are Called “GROOM” And The WOMAN “THE BRIDE” On Wedding Day

    Why MEN Are Called GROOM And The WOMAN THE BRIDE On Wedding Day

    Why MEN Are Called GROOM And The WOMAN THE BRIDE On Wedding Day

    Why is the newly wedded man called groom and the woman called bride? A friend of mine got tired of his wife just about six months after wedding. He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him that right thing, so I went home.

    And that is what birth this message. Many men have broken up with their wives because they end up not being the wife that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task.

    Nobody calls the woman wife on her wedding day but bride, because it is the man that will groom his bride to become the wife.That is why the man is called ‘bridegroom or groom’ and the word grooming has to do with patiently nurturing, teaching, tending and helping someone to become what he or she should be.It is therefore believed that a man that takes a woman to the altar of marriage is matured enough to patiently groom his bride to become the wife.

    The man is not supposed to just expect the bride to automatically become the wife, she must be groomed. It is clear that many of us men have unnecessary expectations when we are getting married, we want some magic to happen to our wives, we want them to become what we have had in mind about who we want our wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her.

    Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don’t remember that change takes time and we can only expect something from someone that knows what we want. So before you think of breaking up, have you groomed her? Have you given her time to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk? God often brings people that are opposites of each other together in marriage so that they can help each other in their place of weaknesses.

    If your wife is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? The problem with many of us is that we don’t accept people before attempting to change them. Of course, our wives are not from our backgrounds, so it will take time for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her, accept her, love her, teach her and be patient with her; that is what grooming is all about. She is going to be your wife but she is your bride now, so groom her.

    Stop complaining about her, she may be a turtle and you a hawk, she cannot fly so be patient with her. I don’t believe that your marriage can’t work, be patient and allow God to help you.

  • 7 REASONS WHY MEN WILL ALWAYS ASK YOU FOR SEX (Its a bit long but Educative, take you time to read)

    7 REASONS WHY MEN WILL ALWAYS ASK YOU FOR SEX (Its a bit long but Educative, take you time to read)

    7 REASONS WHY MEN WILL ALWAYS ASK YOU FOR SEX Its a bit long but Educative take you time to read

    7 REASONS WHY MEN WILL ALWAYS ASK YOU FOR SEX

    I want to change some ladies mindset today. (sorry I will be very raw with these).

    You see, men are not dogs. Not all of them are mad. They are not all sex maniacs that once they see you, they descend on you and finish up before you could open your mouth and say no. Not all the men on the street wants to get into your pants.

    I’m going to be real and down to earth with this article. The way some ladies complain that men are always asking them for sex really baffles me. Why sex, why not marriage proposal? Why do men always want to sleep with you? Why is it that every single guy who asks you out is always hitting you for sex? Why won’t they marry you unless they have a taste of the forbidden fruit? What is the problem because this is a big problem! It is not something to be proud of, if all what men see about you is your body and nothing more. It is a cause for alarm!
    let me take time to analyze it on a beat.

    (1.) CHECK YOUR DRESSING

    A female’s body means nothing to her. You are used to seeing your breasts and every soft body part all your life. It doesn’t mean a thing to you but to guys it means the universe!
    Men are moved by sight. Wearing armless (exposing your shaved armpit and upper arm) can turn a man on talk less of the low neckline exposing the cleavage of your breasts. Tight trousers, tights (panty hose) which shows the shape of your buttock, mini and micromini skirts exposing your thigh all can make a man go wild! Better face reality now and mind the way you dress.

    Some ladies say it doesn’t matter. Men should be able to control themselves. They are entitled to what they wear. Then you should be able to control yourself when they start asking you for sex and not come here lamenting all men are dogs!.

    I saw a lady around a street sometime ago and I whistled. Jesus Christ! The gown (not really a gown, the top was sown together with the trouser, it was suppose to be a gown but the one down is a trouser) clung to her body like her second skin and right through the window of the car.

    I was literally, looking at the shape of her buttock! It was like she wore nothing! She thought she looked so beautiful but well, she looked so seductive! If she was going to visit a male friend , it will take the power of the Most High God and the special anointing of the Holy Ghost for that guy not to sleep with her or asked her for sex.that is if a mad man didn’t rape her before she gets to her destination! It was that baaad!!!

    (2.) LEARN HOW TO SIT

    Some ladies don’t know how to sit. Especially the skirt wearing sisters. You sit in front of a guy and open your laps, what do you want him to see? A trance? Yeah, he saw alot of it! Always close your thigh when you are sitting whether in front of a guy or not.

    Not sitting very well can become a habit and follow you around. And you wonder why all the brothers in the church wants to sleep with you!
    I was on a bike one day and saw a fully grown, mature lady sitting in front of her shop with her thigh thrown apart. She wore a short gown exactly like the lady in this picture and was sitting facing the express road! The whole world had a complete assess to her holy of holies, may the Lord have mercy! If men start asking her for sex, she will tell us she doesn’t know why men are disturbing her.

    (3.) YOU TOUCH MEN A LOT

    Ladies who touch, hug and wrap themselves around guys are sexual magnets to sexually immature guys. Why are you always hugging and pecking, for what? Can’t you talk without touching, holding and hugging someone? Some even sit on their “friend’s” lap and say it doesn’t matter. He is just a brother in Christ. He would soon be a lover in bed. Learn to control your emotions around the opposite sex. If you must hug, go look for your fellow lady to hug and peck and you still need to be careful. Lesbians are all over the places!

    (4.) CALLING MEN PET NAMES

    I hate it when women call me sweetheart- I’m not your sweetheart! I am sweetheart to only babe or my Wife. Some people just throw around the word babe” as if it is a second language! Why would you give all the guys in your life pet names? You say, “thanks honey,” “okay sweetie”, “see you dearie”, “bye love”, etc.,you are looking for serious trouble. Words like this turns a man on..

    (5.) YOU SEDUCE MEN

    Here, you deliberately wear provocative dresses with the intention to turn him on. You want to see whether you are sexually admirable to him and want to see how far he can respond to your seduction. You don’t need that test at all. Men are turned on by women whether you seduce him or not. A woman’s body is built to turn a man on.

    (6.) YOU POST SEDUCTIVE PICTURES ON THE SOCIAL MEDIA

    When I see the way some ladies pose on facebook, I wonder what they are really looking for. Why pouting? Do you want him to kiss you? Why turn your buttick to the camera? Do you want him to see how big it is? Why focus on your chest? Do you want him to know you have firm breasts? What is the purpose of the pictures you are posting?

    (7.) YOU EXPECT MEN TO ASK FOR SEX

    Some ladies think because they are exceptionally beautiful, men will always ask for sex so it’s not really their fault that they sleep around. That is a big lie from the pit of hell!
    One of My mentor is an exceptionally beautiful woman with large hips. You can easily pick her out from a crowd because of her hips. She uses no makeup and jewelry yet she has a stunning face that makes any man look twice yet she married as a virgin. In fact.

    You need to work on your mind. Thinking all men will die for you because you have a hot body is crap! Not all men lose their senses when they see a woman with seductive body. All irresponsible, immature, abusers and users do get attracted to her anyway. Mature, godly men don’t get their brain twisted on sporting that type of woman.

    Remember: Alright, here are the seven (7) possible reasons men may be sleeping with you or always asking you for sex each time I come across one.

    I know you are sick and tired of being used and dumped. If you really desire to get married and marry right, I mean you want to attract a godly man and gloriously settle down to a beautiful marriage, you will need to work on your mindset and change your attitude towards men.Watch what you wear, how you sit, where you go and the way you behave around men.

    A virtous lady dresses well to cover her body and comports herself maturely around men. You will be addressed the way you dress. If they are always asking you for sex. Check what is wrong and fix it. I repeat check what is wrong and fix it…God bless us all
    Men how is the volume 😂

    Remember Love is Natural ❣️

    Class dismissed 🙌

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  • Men Will Be Men

    Men Will Be Men

    Men Will Be Men

    Thank you for choosing Siri as your online beautiful sweet story reading partner. Today we have “Men Will Be Men Of Men Will Be Men Stories Or Novels To Read with Siri.”

    📖🧎 Men Will Be Men:

    One day a woman wanted to know how the husband would react if she left without telling him where she had gone. So she decided to write him a letter saying she is tired of him and didn’t want to live with him anymore and after writing she put the letter on the table in the bedroom and then hid under the bed…When the husband came back home, saw the letter and read it, he replied on the same paper and then began to sing and dance changing his clothes.

    He got his phone, dialled someone then said: “Hey babe, am just changing clothes then will join you, as for the other fool it has finally dawned on her that I was fooling around with her and has left. I was wrong..really wrong to have married her, I wish I had known you earlier. See you soon honey!” The husband walked out of the room and left. In tears and very upset, the woman got up from under the bed and decided to go and read what the husband wrote on the letter. When she got the letter, it said: “I COULD see your feet under the bed, I didn’t make any phone call.. I am going to buy bread. Stand up, stop your silly games and prepare me a meal…. I LOVE YOU!

    You see the importance of reading texts to the end… Try and change, don’t let your emotions work faster than your brain.

    I’m sure you are laughing now…make someone else laugh too by sharing…

  • The TEN Commandments Of Marriage To Men

    The TEN Commandments Of Marriage To Men

    Ten Commandments Of Marriage To Men

    Glad you are among the privilege who could take Siri as online personal sister and advicer. Today let’s discuss “Ten Commandments Of Marriage To Men.” Make sure you share this with your relatives after reading. Siri ❤️ You 😘.

    The 10 Commandments Of Marriage To Men

    (1.) Don’t have another woman aside your wife. If you need another woman tell your wife and marry her

    (2.) Thou shall not speak evil about your wife to your family.

    (3.) Remember the labour of your wife when you were poor. So when you’re rich honour her.

    (4.) Don’t compare your wife to any woman even your mother.

    (5.) 6 Days maximum shall thee work 1 day shall be a Sabbath day for your wife.

    (6.) Honour your father and mother in_law so that their daughter will not return to them.

    (7.) Don’t insult your wife in public so that people will not know your foolishness.

    (8.) Forgive your wife 70 x7 in 1 day.

    (9.) Thou shall make your wife happy at all times. Always ask her: Are you okay ?

    (10.) Thou shall not say to your wife, leave my house, No matter what. Settle difference and live together peacefully.

    WOMEN AM I COMMUNICATING ?

    #Siri ❤️s You!!!

  • Relationship Thoughts For All Single Men

    Relationship Thoughts For All Single Men

    Relationship Thoughts For All Single Men

    Glad you are among the privilege who could take Siri as online personal sister and advicer. Today let’s discuss “Relationship Thoughts For All Single Men.” Make sure you share this with your relatives after reading. Siri ❤️ You.

    Relationship Thoughts For All Single Men:

    (1.) Before you start a relationship with a lady, you must think carefully about what you are about to do. A relationship is not something you should rush into or handle lightly.

    (2.) Are you ready for a relationship with her? Are you emotionally, mentally and spiritually mature to meet her needs?

    (3.) Being sexually attracted to her means absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of likeness, love or any other thing your mind may come up with. It may just be your hormones messing with your mind. A woman is more than her body and her sexuality. She has a life which you should be able to blend with. Can you do that?

    (4.) This lady has a history. Can you handle it? She has a past. Can you handle it? Can you handle her mistakes, failures and weaknesses? Can you handle her dreams without being intimidated and becoming jealous?

    (5.) She already had a life before she met you. Can you fit into and help improve her life?

    (6.) Love is commitment. Are you ready to commit your life to helping her grow and become all that she can be, by God’s grace?

    (7.) Is she valuable enough for you to devote a large portion of your life towards the accomplishment of HER dream? Are you ready to pour your resources into making her all the Lord plans for her to be? If you are not ready, don’t just bother.

    (8.) Before you open your mouth to say I love you’, ask yourself if this is not just a moment of ’emotional madness. A lady needs much more than I love you’.

    She needs YOUR commitment. If you are not ready to make that commitment that will lead to marriage, please leave her alone in peace and stop wasting her time and resources……

    #Siri ❤️s You!!!

  • Weird Habits Women Have That Men Don’t Understand

    Weird Habits Women Have That Men Don’t Understand

    Weird Habits Women Have That Men Don’t Understand

    Glad you are among the privilege who could take Siri as online personal sister and advicer. Today let’s discuss “Weird Habits Women Have That Men Don’t Understand.” Make sure you share with your relatives after reading. Siri ❤️ You.

    Weird Habits Women Have That Men Don’t Understand

    Women, truly are spectacular creatures. They are really good at doing things, even things that have not been done. They know how to make great things happen and are always willing to take risks, even risks some men are afraid to take in their entire life. Nevertheless, we can also agree that behind every curtain, there is always a secret.

    Men are, most times, not really comfortable with women—for a couple of reasons. This is because of some of the weird things they do.

    Ladies, I know so many of you are still thinking of the weird things you do that make some men get told off even without saying a word.

    (1.) You Complain Of Not Having Clothes:

    Women can buy clothes for Africa! They really want to put on the latest and so are not tired of buying. They will always complain of lacking clothes while in a real sense, their wardrobe is filled up with lots of clothes.

    (2.) Always Asking Your Guy To Take You Out:

    This is especially true if the lady doesn’t know how or is lazy, so to speak, to cook at home. The man sees going out on several a waste of money and it really is.

    (3.) You Carry Extra Stuff:

    Whenever you go out with your guy, it is either he helps you carry your bag or you are using it to suffocate him all in the name of “making up again later”. There is nothing palpable in the bag but just makeups and other things “for girls”.

    (4.) Checking Shopping Pages And Websites:

    Ladies are fond of scrolling on Facebook pages viewing different African or Nigerian attires, shoes, and foods. But at the end of day, after wasting a lot of time and data, they will not order for a single thing. This is also weird too to guys.

    (5.) Taking Too Long To Makeup:

    This always annoys so many guys. Imagine waiting patiently for hours just because a babe is making up. Isn’t this weird? Absolutely! You can trust MyWow for stuff like this. MyWow cares !

    #Siri ❤️s You!!!

  • Men Do Cry (Episode 1)

    Men Do Cry (Episode 1)

    Men Do Cry Episode 1

    Thank you for choosing Siri as your online beautiful sweet story reading partner. Today we have “Men Do Cry Episode 1 Or Chapter One of Men Do Cry Stories Or Novels To Read with Siri.”

    🤦 Men Do Cry Episode One:

    We live in a society, where men are perceived as superhumans without the need to first verify if they have superpowers. There’s so much pressure on men to be strong, perfect and fearless. Tears from a man’s eyes is most often perceived as weakness and due to this, men try their best to always appear emotionless and tough. This was the reality of a ruthless lawyer named “Jaden”.

    Back in the university days, Jaden was madly in love with a lady whom he gave his whole heart to. He made sure she never lacked anything and was everything she wanted him to be. She was his first love!

    Their relationship didn’t last too long before hitting the rocks. Their separation shattered Jaden’s heart into tiny pieces and left him deranged. He tried his possible best to get back together with her but all efforts was fruitless. Most times, he cried while begging her to stay but her mind was already made up.

    That breakup was Jaden’s first and it left him devastated, broken and hurt. He hated “Love” and vowed to never be vulnerable or open the doors to his heart again all the days of his life. His hatred for vulnerability and weakness led to his decision to venture into law school.

    Jaden redirected all the anger from his broken relationship towards becoming the best lawyer there was. He studied 10× harder than his counterparts in law school and never looked at any lady twice. Jaden graduated as one of the best students and was called to Bar shortly afterwards. He had a record of not losing any case he puts his mind to winning. Jaden was one of the most sort after lawyers in his time.

    With all these victories, one would think that Jaden was a happy and fulfilled man, but it’s sad that the reverse was the case. Jaden was still angry with himself for being vulnerable years back; he hated himself for letting his emotions show and for ever being dumped by someone. His title as an accomplished lawyer couldn’t erase that one pain.

    His chosen profession made things worst because people began to perceive him as a superhuman who had everything under control. A lot of people feared and respected him due to his numerous court victories. Little did they know that Jaden was still human and had his own hidden insecurities, little did they also know that Jaden’s career success was birthed from anger, fear and rejection. Little did they know!

    Year in year out, Jaden remained a bachelor and wasn’t planning on letting any lady close to his heart anytime soon. He had few female friends but they never had the privilege of stepping their foot into his house. He lived an extremely private life and his house was out of bounds for women. Jaden hardly spoke to women and always tried to keep the conversation short whenever he found himself in an unavoidable situation. Everything remained the same but it wasn’t for too long.

    Jaden had a tough case before him that had been in court for a long time. That case wasn’t an easy one, as it was always adjourned whenever he thought victory for his client was near. Fortunately for Jaden, victory came at last and he was more happy that day than he had ever been all his life.

    The person whose case was won, threw a party at his house with Jaden as the guest of honour. They partied all evening till Jaden had to leave at around 8pm.
    It was a quiet ride back home but Jaden had to make a stop at a fast food to buy some snacks to take home. The fast food was about closing when he entered in a hurry. Immediately he set his eyes on the counter from afar, he couldn’t help but look at the fast food attendant twice. His heart skipped a beat for the first time in many years; he comported himself and walked till he reached the counter. “Hello, please what can I get you?” the lady behind he counter enquired with a calm voice. Jaden kept wondering why he was drawn to her but didn’t let his emotions show at all, “What do you guys still have?” He asked with a straight face, “uhmmm, we still have some snacks like meat pie, sausage roll, scotch egg and chicken pie?” She replied smiling.

    Her manner of approach got Jaden tripping but he didn’t want to accept the fact that a fast food attendant could have the power to penetrate a wall alot of successful ladies with all their degrees couldn’t. “I’ll have 2 chicken pie” he said and it was given to him, “Have a great remaining hours of today” she said and walked out of the counter.

    As Jaden walked back to his car, he couldn’t take the mysterious fast food attendant off his mind. He kept asking himself “Who is she?”.

    TO Be Continued