Tag: How I Became A Single Mother

  • How I Became A Single Mother (Chapter 6)

    How I Became A Single Mother (Chapter 6)

    How I Became A Single Mother Chapter 6

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    🀱 How I Became A Single Mother Chapter Six:
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    ✨ Final Episode ✨
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    🧑 ARIKE 🧑
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    And I said okay oo, if that’s what you can afford drop it, and he did it once the following month, in which he was supposed to drop another one, we told him Shindara was sick, and that period I just collected my salary, my mum and my sister, stood by me, I gave them the little I had, and I had to go to work everyday because my boss did not know I have a child, because if he knows, I won’t have gotten the job and am doing the job because if her, even though the pay is not much, but at least am giving her what she wants, and am paying her pills and I thank God for it

    To cut the long story short, he (Tobi) came, empty handed, and the sickness was severe that she couldn’t eat for three weeks, and she later landed in Nancy hospital on the island, we were given drugs and all sorts of things, and I paid with money in my account, and he came empty handed, and even in my presence he called another lady, that he was already here and all that..

    He showed my mom, all the chats of all me and every other guy on Facebook and told my mum that that’s the reason why he can’t marry me, and my mum was begging him not to do that, I told my mum not to beg him, that he he says he wants to go she should let him go, because I know I can take good care of my baby alone, that out of all the guys there which one have I ever introduced to you as my husband, or have I ever gone out and slept out without you knowing, the only thing that makes me sleep out is music, aside that nothing… even if I want to be with my boyfriend, I use to tell him I will leave by this particular time because I have to be with my child, that she should let him be..

    And just of recent, His sister.. that was supposed to be my own Best friend, she posted on her status “MAY GOD BLESS THE DAY I HEARD”.. I was forced to check the next picture, and I saw that it was Tobi and another babe that are about to get married, maybe this year or next year I don’t know..

    Wonu am not done with the story to be candid,, but I just believe that there is nothing God cannot do, this past two years have been a mother and a father to my baby I have learnt alot of things, because I know if i die today someone else will take my place so I thought it’s better to be myself, take good care of Shindara, and make her the best of all that has been my prayer all this while, God should give me the power and the strength to act like a mother and a father to my child, because I heard that once a child is seven years old, the father has the right to take her full custody, but I know a judge in his or her right senses won’t pass such judgement

    Even now any guy that wants to marry me will have to adopt my child legally, I really don’t care because that family is not the type of family I can advise someone to get married to one of them, Imagine you have someone you wanted to marry you impregnated me, things were not working well for you, I stood by you, now things are fine, you now know you have seen someone that is better, am not angry but I know there is nothing God can’t do, I leave everything for God, it is this same person I will cook for, send money to every month, there was a particular job I did when I just gave birth on the island, they sell bra..

    I will resume to work before 8:00am, and get home by 10:00pm before I can be with my child and I was still breast feeding her then, i didn’t mind because there was no money, and aside that, last year I did a job, my salary was 12k I told Tobi my salary was 12k, and sincerely 10 thousand isn’t enough for my baby’s food for a month, but God helped me, I will go to work without eating, but because I know how to relate with customers… (It’s a super market), I will collect tips, I will eat from that tip, and I will give my mum out if it, to help me buy some stuff for my child

    Out of that 12, i will send one thousand naira recharge card to this Idiot, because he said he needs to communicate with the people helping him with job, but at a particular time I stopped it because, he won’t call me with the card to appreciate and am still the one taking care of our own child, so I just had to let him go

    So everything have been doing is by God’s power and mercy

    🧑 WONU’S POV 🧑

    Here comes the end of the story,

    Firstly I wanna thank God for giving me the strength to complete this book, because everything happened because of him..

    Secondly, All Thanks to sister ARIKE πŸ˜…, for giving me the opportunity to write her story

    Finally, guys I really appreciate your patience, even though I don’t post regularly, you still endured.. I love you guys pass anything else, after you na you✌️

    So… Lovies β™₯️ I do hope you have learnt a thing or two from this story, like I promised, we are going to entertain thirty questions Pere!, and I will select randomly, if there is something you need to ask or say, do that in the comments section, and if you are too shy to do that in the comments section, feel free, my DM is always opened I promise to take my time and make sure it gets to her (ARIKE)

    Lost Memories comes immediately after the Q and A section, grab your popcorn and drinks..

    I love you Soo much πŸ’“βœŒοΈ

    The End…

  • How I Became A Single Mother (Chapter 5)

    How I Became A Single Mother (Chapter 5)

    How I Became A Single Mother Chapter 5

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    🀱 How I Became A Single Mother Chapter Five:
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    ✨ Semi Final Episode ✨
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    🧑 ARIKE 🧑
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    He was like why didn’t I tell him I have a child and all that, I told him I was sorry, that I don’t like telling people my story anyhow, and I don’t know him, and I can’t just tell him about myself, and now that he knows, I have a child but Tobi and I are no longer together, but am still hoping that things will work out between us (Tobi), but with the look of things I don’t think such is going to happen..

    The guy now said for what you just did, ARIKE am going to marry you, I was like are you okay, you want to marry me, am with his child, he said it doesn’t matter, that he will marry me with my baby, that he will accept the baby legally…, I don’t know maybe the guy just said it to make me happy.. I don’t know..

    So ever since then each time Tobi and I are talking, he will tell me he already have an evidence to show my family, that I am cheating on him, then I told him, if I didn’t give you my Facebook log in details, would you know I am chatting with a guy, I gave you mine, I did not have yours, and it is still this Same Tobi that will be beside me and will still be chatting with a lady.. I told him not to use that as an evidence he should just tell me if he has ever caught me cheating, or during the Short period we both spent with each other if he has ever caught me doing something bad, that was how that went..

    I made sure my Facebook was still with him when I met another guy this year (January), because we have broken up finally (Tobi and I), we don’t chat, we blocked each other on social media, but the only thing is that he wants me to be coming with his child to visit him, each time we go visit (Shindara and I), all he wanted was sx, because he already told me that the only thing he misses in me is the way we used to have sx, when I realized that that was what he wanted I told him I was not in for that, because if we keep having the s*x, I might get pregnant and I don’t want to birth and nurse my second child in my parents house, I had to block that, but I did not change my Facebook password, so he reads our chat, and we chat more on Facebook than WhatsApp then because I had a problem with my WhatsApp line, and we use to chat naughty and dirty.. this guy is just my boyfriend and nothing more.. because the fact that I have a child doesn’t mean I can’t have a boyfriend.. since I don’t have one and am not married

    When I met this guy he filled me with so much love and happiness, I won’t lie 100%, he is the kind of guy, every lady will pray to be with, forever.. Although he is married with two kids, he behaves as if we are about to get married even I use to beg him to make me his second wife, but he said he don’t have the strength for two wife, that how I love this guy

    I purposely left Tobi because he was gathering alot of evidence, He finally got a job (Tobi), God blessed him with a job, he called and said he wants to be taking responsibilities, and the baby is close to two years already, but I was happy because I felt he was going to relieve me from somethings, Because the job am doing is not as if the salary is much or something, but my child is important, I need to take good care of her, she will eat, buy clothes, I ensure I give her the best of all, it’s okay if I did not eat but I daughter is my priority, I want her to standout and that’s how have been doing

    I said okay, it was fine, that how much will he be dropping every month, and I will add to it he said 5k, her school fees is 8,500 her provisions for a month, and her hair everything, you now said you want to be dropping 5k every month, but I said it was cool I know you just got a job, and all that… but he dropped it only once

    TO Be Continued

  • How I Became A Single Mother (Chapter 4)

    How I Became A Single Mother (Chapter 4)

    How I Became A Single Mother Chapter 4

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    🀱 How I Became A Single Mother Chapter Four:
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    🧑 ARIKE 🧑
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    When I got there, I explained everything to him, I told him what his family said and my daughter is going to one year old, that when are is family coming, and the brother said he was going to do something about it, and I said okay, I would be very glad…. even when I got home he spoke with my mom and assured her, that everything will come to normal and they were going to come, see her and i was really happy

    But to cut the long story short, they did not come, and I did not bother to call him because things were already changing between tobi and I, even worse than before because the feelings were dying slowly, and my family were turning their backs against me, each time I called Tobi to ask he would tell me, his family can’t come because it is too rough and all sorts of silly excuses, and I just had to let them be though I wasn’t happy at all..

    There used to be this guy, my friend.. and to God who made me, the guy never asked me out.. and Tobi has my Facebook password and all my log in details, I gave him then because he was doubting me, and he did not see any traces of me cheating or something

    That guy, he is a writer, and the reason why I liked him is because he is a writer, though he doesn’t write stories like Wonu, he is a poet writer, he writes poems, and that period it was close to Tobi’s birthday and I told that guy that I want him he was going to help me write an episple for someone’s birthday, someone very special and I gave him hints and he agreed..

    From there the guy and I started having a good conversation and there was nothing like I love you, or I miss you in our conversation just normal chats

    When he checked my messages and saw our chats he was angry and he faced the guy, and he was like did you know that, you are talking to my wife, and that has a four months old daughter.. and I was like, I thought you said you can’t marry me 🀷..

    And I never told the guy that I have a child, and that’s because I can’t just meet you for the first time and start telling you, I have a daughter, am occupied, am taken, am this am that, though having a child isn’t a disease but I don’t like telling my story anyhow, because I don’t know the type of person you are, and I don’t know the guy that much, but Tobi went ahead to cast me, when the guy got to know I have a child he was angry and was like why didn’t you tell me..

    TO Be Continued

  • How I Became A Single Mother (Chapter 3)

    How I Became A Single Mother (Chapter 3)

    How I Became A Single Mother Chapter 3

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    🀱 How I Became A Single Mother Chapter Two:
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    🧑 ARIKE 🧑
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    I was like WOW 😱, is it now you know your family said you can’t marry me because am an undergraduate, when he had nothing i would go out and hustle for money, even with the pregnancy, and that time I used to do everything he wanted.. because I felt like if God finally bless him, he will remember me for sure, I never knew it was going to be vice versa

    He told me that if I know another man has had sx with me, I should let him know so he can help me bring a remedy from his home town on the day of delivery.. I was like how can I have sx with another man, with pregnancy.. who does that??? and I told him that till I will deliver the baby I won’t call him, he will just receive the news that I have given birth.. since then we did not talk at all

    I had my baby girl “OLUWASHINDARA”, October 22nd 2018… when I gave birth my family asked if they should inform him, I said no that I don’t want him to know anything about it, because I seconded him at my family’s place, but he was misbehaving.. I did not know what to do again, so I felt he needed to know because he is the father of the child

    Pamilerin (My sister), called him and informed him, he said congratulations on the birth of the baby, my sister was like what do you mean by congratulations, you are the father of the child, we should be congratulating you, not the other way round, it sounds weird..

    And this pamilerin, if she should hear that he is broke, at my back, without me knowing about it, she would send money to him, the least is 5k, and if he comes to visit me.. (Before I gave birth)… and he wants to leave, it is still this same pamilerin that will give him T Fare

    Even me too, the money I get from the churches where I sing, out of the money I will buy him clothes, food and send to him, despite my condition, from the money I got from the churches, I used it to buy the baby things, because I thought he was going to take responsibilities no matter what… but I was wrong, I now reasoned that if I should wait for him, it just going to be a waste of time…, That’s for the pregnancy period

    When my baby was Eight months, he called and told me one of his brother in Lagos wants to see me, and I was like.. you have a brother here in Lagos and I did not know you did not tell me.. (He told me non of his family are lagos based), he said he told me, I said he did not tell me…

    And we went to see his brother

    TO Be Continued

  • How I Became A Single Mother (Chapter 2)

    How I Became A Single Mother (Chapter 2)

    How I Became A Single Mother Chapter 2

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    🀱 How I Became A Single Mother Chapter Two:
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    🧑 ARIKE 🧑
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    I called him and told him I was pregnant, he was Soo happy, even I was happy he was happy, I was like thank God finally, so this guy really wants me and all that, As at that time I have not met any of his family members, I only speak with them on phone, because he told me a story about his ex, which his parents thinks they are still together, because the girl left him for another person…

    Tobi (My Ex Fiancee), just finished his service.. (NYSC), so he has been looking for job, when I already knew I was pregnant have been standing in gap, Because, been a wife to him, the way I see myself,

    Becoming a mother involves serious money, for antenatal and some other stuff, my mum gave me 50k to start up a business, am a stylist, since there was no money, I used part of the money for the antenatal, I spent about 30k for the antenatal, there is this drug I used to buy every month, it cost 6,700

    During that period a Kobo from his pocket did not drop, I did not blame him because he had no job then, When he wanted come to visit my family… he was told to come along with his family, he said he doesn’t family that stays in lagos, I seconded him at my family’s place because I don’t want them to chase him away, I did not want to give birth to a child without a father, and I told my mum everything because we are very close, I told her to let him come alone first, then when he gets a job and he his financially okay, and we both have our own apartment his family can come, so it will be easy for them visit us from wherever they are coming from, so they can visit my parents from our apartment

    I started some stuff, just to get money, I started selling juice, I will buy some fruits at ketu market, I will mix it with it with some other ingredients, my husband and I were jobless, the little money I got from the juice I was selling which I was start up a business, I used it for the baby and I upkeeping , even with the little money I had on me, the least I sent to him was 2k,

    There was these three guys, my exs, when they got to know I was pregnant they were happy for me, and they used to give me money, fruit, and even food, it even got to a point that I was like why did I not get pregnant for one of them, I felt because Tobi is jobless that’s why he was acting weird, but he did not show any concern

    When the pregnancy was eight months, I called him and asked “Tobi what about your parents that you said they were going to come” and he said his family said he should not get married to an undergraduate, Because I dropped out, I told him everything that happened back then, that he should not get married to someone like me because I don’t worth being his wife

    To Be Continued

  • How I Became A Single Mother (Chapter 1)

    How I Became A Single Mother (Chapter 1)

    How I Became A Single Mother Chapter 1

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    🀱 How I Became A Single Mother Chapter One:
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    🧑 ARIKE 🧑
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    I met my Ex Fiancee online, Around 2017…, Am not really the type that joins group.. I was single and lonely.. I had no friends.. I don’t know if I have any reasons.. but I don’t have friends, and I reluctantly joined the group, just to see if the group is fun, he posted something about courtship seeker, and I asked him if he can add me, instead of him to add me, he sent a direct message, which took me couple of days to reply because am not a fan of Facebook, the day I replied we started having a sweet conversation which led to my background and personal life..

    I was sooo opened, I told him everything, on a normal day I don’t do such, I told him everything, and he told me about his… though I don’t know if everything he told me then was all about himself, and that was November 30th 2017, within a short period of time, we were already having a good communication, even on phone and everything was going smoothly

    Within a short period of time, we were already like “Ohhh baby I can’t wait to see you, baby I can’t wait to do this and all that”…, he based in ondo state and I base in Lagos.. And I decided to go to ondo… because he said he doesn’t have anybody in Lagos and he has an apartment in Ondo, and even me as a person I was already tired of Lagos… I wanted to travel and see other states, so I travelled to ondo and spent a couple of days, and i returned to Lagos before Christmas,… I went there again on the 31st, and I returned home January 2018.

    We always wanted to see each other more often, so I Left for his place, towards the end of January 2018.. and I spent my valentine

    Before I left Ondo.. I was already have some kind of feelings that the guy is not going to be serious, because we used to have issues back then.. and am the type that gets angry easily but I ignored the feelings because I was so in love with him..

    I discovered I was pregnant when I was in Lagos, and it was after three months I got to know i was pregnant… and I called to and informed him I was already pregnant

    TO Be Continued